I think we frequently just “read over the top” of what Jesus said. What I mean is this: We ignore his words. Or we change them. Or we put our own meaning, or what we think they mean, into his words. We might say:
You know, he doesn’t really mean…
You know, he’s trying to say…
I’ve heard both of these many times before.
But I tend to think that Jesus really meant what he was saying. In fact, I would tend to go so far as to say that he backed up what he was saying with what he did. I’ll explain as I go forward.
On the one hand, Jesus was hated by the religious leaders, by the Pharisees and the Saducees. He routinely spoke against their practice of the law and their religiosity. The religious leaders were very “moral” in the sense that they worked to follow every jot and tittle of what had been written, meanwhile ignoring the spirit of why it had been written.
On the other hand, Jesus was loved by the people. The crowds followed him. Why? Well, maybe at least a part of his appeal was that he spoke against the practice of the religious leaders, a practice that created a heavy weight for the rest of the people. The teachers of the law claimed that the people needed to follow the law in the way that they followed the law, and by not doing so, they were sinning. Of course, this not only disturbed the people but, as Jesus pointed out, even prevented them from coming to God because of their weariness of what the religious leaders required.
But Jesus spoke against all of this. Jesus was clear that all of this striving to try to follow every detail of the law and be a good moral person had nothing to do with knowing God or pleasing God.
Yet at the same time, if you love yourself, if you love who you are, if you love and serve your life, you have also missed it. Jesus explained to both the religious leaders and to the regular, everyday people that one thing was needed:
Him.
In Luke 14, we see a couple of scenes where he explains this with amazing clarity. First, as Jesus was having a meal with several Pharisees and teachers of the law, he teaches them the importance of humility in the kingdom of God and then calls them to prioritize one thing in their life: their relationship with the master.
Jesus knew that the Pharisees and Saducees were so busy building their own position, their own status, their own lives, that they were hardly ever actually in connection with the One whom they said that they were serving, God himself. Instead, the religious leaders would have many other things to do:
Purchasing property.
Working and making money.
Getting married. Connecting and relating to others.
And of course, none of these are bad things. But Jesus is explaining that they are doing these things instead of knowing the master, instead of spending time with him, instead of celebrating at the banquet of the kingdom of God, and so their positions at the banquet will be given to others. To those who have not, up until now, been connected to the master, the doors will be opened and the invitation will be given, and the banquet hall will be full. In the case of the Israelites, the doors were opened to the Gentiles, but this same teaching can be applied to each of us. Regardless of whether we say that we are God’s people or not, regardless of whether we say that we are Christians or not, the only thing that matters is our relationship to God through Christ, through Jesus.
As Jesus leaves the banquet on that particular sabbath, he is followed by a large number of people. The crowds want to be with him. The crowds want to follow him, to be healed by him, to know this curiosity that has come to them.
At that point, you might think that Jesus is having great success in his ministry, but look at what he says:
If you don’t hate your father, mother, wife, children, brothers, sisters, or even your very life, you can’t be his disciple.
Or this: Anyone who doesn’t carry his own cross – meaning, to his own death! – can’t be his disciple.
Jesus tells the people that they need to be like a man who is going to build a tower or a king that is going to go to war. He had better understand the cost before he starts the process. He had better be ready to go all of the way through with it. And to go all of the way through with it, when it comes to following Jesus and being his disciple, means that he is more important than all of the rest.
More important than your family.
More important than anything you have going on.
More important than your very life.
And so Jesus finishes all of this by saying:
In the same way, those of you who do not give up everything you have cannot be my disciples.
Luke 14:33
Let us not try to simply explain away what Jesus is saying. Instead, let’s listen carefully! Not because we should see this idea of giving up everything to follow him as a great loss, but instead because we see it as an incredible gain. I like to remember back to what Jesus told his disciples when he was explained the kingdom of God as being like an amazing, valuable treasure:
The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field.
Matthew 13:44
See, the man, when he finds the kingdom, he sells everything that he has with joy! He isn’t upset. He isn’t a type of ascetic who is just living by discipline. No, he gains a great treasure that he gladly gave up everything to receive.
And this is what Jesus is commenting upon to the religious leaders and to the crowds of people. They preferred their own lives instead of preferring him. They liked their money and they depended upon it instead of depending upon him. They wanted every other thing instead of him. And yet he, Jesus, is the king in the kingdom of God! He is the one whom we should prefer because he is the most valuable person, over all and above all.
So let us give up everything, and in our joy sell it all to be able to be his disciple, to have him.